If you don’t smoke, then life with a smoker can be challenging. From worrying about your loved one’s health to clashing over where they light up, smoking can become a source of conflict.
Lockdown restrictions will have exacerbated these tensions within many households, with non smokers forced to inhale second-hand smoke on a daily basis.
Concerns over the heightened risk faced by smokers from Covid-19 and the dangers of exposing children to second-hand smoke during lockdown, mean it’s more important than ever for smokers to quit the habit.
Persuading a smoker to change the habit of a lifetime, can be extremely difficult. A smoker has got to want to stop themselves and you may not be able to persuade them into taking action if they are not ready. Ultimately it is their decision. However there are ways for you to encourage them to think differently.
To help you to start conversations with a smoker about quitting, or changing their habits to protect you from second-hand smoke, we’ve put together a simple guide with some ideas you could try.
Get your facts straight before you start a conversation about why your partner should quit. Come armed with information about why quitting will benefit their health and the numerous deadly health conditions it causes. Simple, powerful statistics will help to strengthen your argument. Such as the fact that every 15 cigarettes they smoke will cause a genetic mutation in their body that could lead to cancer and that every cigarette contains 4,000 chemicals, many of which cause cancer. Tell them about the increased risk they face from Covid-19 if they continue to smoke. Evidence has shown that smokers are more likely to suffer more severe symptoms if they contract the virus.
Many people switch off when they hear bad news. Remember to speak not just about the dangers of smoking but about the huge benefits of quitting smoking and how their body will begin to recover within minutes of them stubbing out their last cigarette. Tell them that within a year of quitting smoking they will be 50% less likely to have a heart attack, heart disease or a stroke. Read our blog on what happens to your body when you quit smoking to find out how the body bounces back.
The financial impact of smoking can be huge. Remind the smoker about the cost of smoking. A 20 a day smoker will be forking out a massive £3796 a year on cigarettes, while a 10 a day smoker will spend £1898 a year on their habit. Talk to the smoker about what they could spend that money on instead – a family holiday for instance, or a contribution towards a new car, home improvements or to pay off debts.
Talk to the smoker about the different ways that they could quit and remind them that they don’t need to go it alone. You will be there to support them and there is great free, smoking cessation support available from NHS Wales Help Me Quit service which is currently offering help and advice via its helpline. Suggest that they make an appointment with their GP who can advise them on the options for quitting.
Find out about the different types of NRT (Nicotine Replacement Therapy) that is available and suggest some options to the smoker. Tell that NRT will enable them to satisfy nicotine cravings without actually having to smoke and that they may need to try different types of NRT before finding the one that suits them best.
Suggest that they may want to consider vaping rather than smoking. Vaping mimics the hand to mouth action of smoking and delivers a hit of nicotine, however e-cigarettes do not contain tobacco and are 95% less harmful than conventional cigarettes, according to research by Public Health England. Find out where your local vape shop is and plan a visit when it is open.
Many smokers say they smoke to combat stress or anxiety. Explain to your smoker than smoking and the constant need to satisfy nicotine cravings, is actually a source of stress and that they could improve their mental health by quitting. Suggest alternative ways that they could deal with stress. Exercise can be particularly effective. A new hobby or project can also act as a distraction.
If the smoker in your life is not ready to quit at this time, then speak to them about the importance of not exposing those around them to second hand smoke. It is particularly important not to smoke in the home. Tell them that exposure to second hand smoke increases the risk of lung cancer in non-smokers by up to 30% and heart disease by up to 35%. Children are particularly vulnerable to the effects of inhaling second hand smoke as their lungs are smaller and still developing. Passive smoking increases their risk of lower respiratory tract infections such as flu, bronchitis and pneumonia by 50%.
80% of cigarette smoke is invisible and hangs around in the air for four hours even after a cigarette has been stubbed out. Suggest to the smoker that they could try using NRT in the house to combat nicotine cravings and remind them that opening a window or using an air purifier while they smoke indoors, will not help. The only way to protect others in the household from second hand smoke is to leave the house, close the door and smoke outside, well away from other people.









Today is the start of Men’s Health Week 2020 – and a stark reminder of the threat currently faced by the male population worldwide.
Data from the COVID Symptom Study app involving more than 3 million people from the UK, Sweden and US, found that current smokers were 14% more likely to develop the three classic symptoms of coronavirus infection – fever, persistent cough and shortness of breath – than non-smokers.
For men smoking also leads to a higher risk of prostate cancer. According to Prostate Cancer UK, some studies show that smoking makes prostate cancer more likely to grow and spread to other parts of the body. Smoking may also make prostate cancer more likely to come back after surgery or radiotherapy and if you are a heavy smoker you are more likely to die from the cancer.
As demand from smokers continues to grow, the Swansea Bay University Health Board in partnership with Public Health Wales has launched a virtual stop smoking service offering group and one-to-one meetings using video conferencing technology. And if it is successful it could form the blueprint for online smoking cessation services across Wales.
During the group sessions participants will be asked to set a quit date, given advice on stop smoking aids including Nicotine Replacement Therapy and will discuss topics such as withdrawal, triggers, what to do if they relapse and the importance of physical exercise, healthy eating and looking after their mental health.
Meanwhile a study by researchers at Cardiff University in 2019 found that 9% of 15 to 16-year-olds in Wales smoke at least weekly.
For those that have already taken up the habit, tailored smoking cessation services aimed specifically at young people must be made available.


It’s possible to quit smoking using will power alone. But that is by no means the most effective way of giving up. Research has shown that you’re up to three times more likely to quit for good if you give up using nicotine replacement therapy (NRT) and behavioural support. There’s absolutely no shame is asking for support. The goal is to stop smoking and it makes no difference whether you do this solo or with support from NRT or a smoking cessation advisor. So be kind to yourself and take advantage of the help that’s available. Call NHS Wales’ Help Me Quit helpline 0808 252 8179 to find out more.
Before you quit, let close family and friends know that you’re planning to give up. You may need their moral support and encouragement when the going gets tough. If you’re in lockdown with family or friends, it’s also a good idea to warn them that you will probably be feeling irritable and end up needing some space. If your mood dips as cravings kick in, don’t suffer in silence. Tell others how you are feeling. Even just talking about it will make you feel better. If you don’t have family or friends you can talk to about quitting, why not reach out to others online. ASH Wales runs a quit smoking Facebook group for ex-smokers and those quitting.
One of the best ways to tackle cigarette cravings is to distract yourself with another activity. The average craving last around 10 to 20 minutes. When you feel the craving starting to build up focus your mind on an activity that will not only relax but distract you. Make sure you prepare a list of activities and any equipment you’ll need to carry them out before you embark on your quit attempt. Activities that encourage mindfulness – focusing on the present and on the details you can see at that moment – are particularly helpful.
Be kind to your body and mind by ensuring that you exercise while quitting smoking. Keeping active will boost your endorphin levels and reduce stress levels. It may not be easy to take part in your usual physical activities during lockdown. So adapt. Take part in online keep fit sessions or, if you can leave the house, go for a walk or a jog outside. Fresh air will also work wonders and the sights and sounds of the outside world will provide a welcome distraction.
When giving up smoking you’ll be tempted to indulge in comfort eating. And no more so than during lockdown when life’s pleasures are limited and food becomes an even more important source of enjoyment. There’s nothing wrong with treating yourself particularly while quitting smoking. But resist the urge to binge on fatty, sugary snacks. While this may provide short term satisfaction, once the sugar high wears off you’ll be left feeling low and gaining weight. Instead nourish yourself with healthy food that will help to improve your sense of well-being.
Quitting smoking can be all-consuming and you’ll probably feel like you’re on an emotional roller coaster. So be realistic about what you can achieve during this time. Don’t co-incide quitting with taking on any big project work or DIY projects or making major life decisions. Instead, lower your expectations and focus solely on quitting. You’ll find the process far easier if you don’t try to do too much at this time.
If you cave in and give in to temptation then go easy on yourself. Quitting smoking is tough and will often take several attempts. Just because you’ve fallen off the wagon does not mean you can’t pick yourself and get back on again when you’re ready. You won’t lose your motivation to quit and each time you try, you’re a step closer to your goal.